Warning: plot spoilers
I only recently discovered Edith Wharton, and I’m very glad I did. The House of Mirth, Wharton’s novel about society woman Lily Bart and her attempts to keep up with the gilded lives of her friends, may at first sound frivolous. But it is a powerful critique of the careless world of the rich and the sexist scrutiny into women’s private lives. We find ourselves loving and hating Lily; we are hopelessly caught up in the glamour of her social life, and yet there is something repelling and monstrous about it all, epitomised in the character of Gus Trenor. Such a life comes with many beautiful clothes, and Wharton’s prose gives us occasional glimpses into the attire of Lily and her set: furs, elaborate hats, ‘rich tissues and jewelled shoulders in harmony with the festooned and gilded walls’.
Lily is well aware of the sexist hypocrisy within her circle, particularly in the matter of clothing; as she says to Lawrence Selden:
‘Your coat’s a little shabby–but who cares? It doesn’t keep people from asking you to dine. If I were shabby no one would have me: a woman is asked out as much for her clothes as for herself. The clothes are the background, the frame, if you like: they don’t make success, but they are a part of it. Who wants a dingy woman? We are expected to be pretty and well-dressed till we drop–and if we can’t keep it up alone, we have to go into partnership.’
If there is any line which crystallises the essence of The House of Mirth and underscores its entire storyline, it must surely be ‘Who wants a dingy woman?’ Lily can be shallow and vacuous, but she is often also astute, and here she is under no illusions about the consequences of not being ‘pretty and well-dressed’. The cost of her lifestyle motivates her to use Gus Trenor to make money, and sets the wheels in motion for her decline into disgrace.
At the wedding of Jack Stepney and Gwen Van Osburgh, Lily pores over Gwen’s jewels, and her heart ‘gave an envious throb as she caught the refraction of light from their surfaces – the milky gleam of perfectly matched pearls, the flash of rubies relieved against contrasting velvet, the intense blue rays of sapphires kindled into light by surrounding diamonds […] the glow of the stones warmed Lily’s veins like wine. More completely than any other expression of wealth they symbolized the life she longed to lead…’ The unattainable jewels take on a special significance to Lily, whose desperation to attain the kind of life that Gwen Van Osburgh secures for herself ultimately becomes her downfall.
One of the most tragic scenes in the novel is towards the end, when the now-disgraced, newly poor Lily is sorting through all of her old clothes:
‘The remaining dresses, though they had lost their freshness, still kept the long unerring lines, the sweep and amplitude of the great artist’s stroke, and as she spread them out on the bed the scenes in which they had been worn rose vividly before her. An association lurked in every fold: each fall of lace and gleam of embroidery was like a letter in the record of her past. She was startled to find how the atmosphere of her old life enveloped her […] every hint of the past sent a lingering tremor along her nerves’.
The old clothes are a painful reminder of Lily’s past, which she can never hope to recreate now she is a fallen woman. In particular there is the iconic white dress which she wears at the Welly Brys’ party, in imitation of Joshua Reynolds’ 1776 portrait of Mrs Lloyd.

Joshua Reynolds, Mrs. Richard Bennett Lloyd, 1776
The simple diaphanous gown clings to the subject provocatively, revealing the outline of her legs; Lily’s version is unmistakably an homage to Mrs Lloyd, yet it is also very much her. To Gerty Farish it also makes her ‘look like the real Lily’, ‘the Lily we know’. The spectating men ‘make titillated, nudging comments on her performance’; they fail to appreciate any artistic vision, and instead gawp at her figure. As Michael Gorra observes, this moment “marks the height of Lily’s social triumph”. But the ‘Mrs Lloyd’ moment, combined with the Rosedale/Trenor rumours and Bertha Dorset’s spiteful machinations, ultimately lands our unmarried tragic heroine in a dingy boarding house, hooked on sleeping pills and abandoned by most of her ‘friends’.
So clothes have multiple functions in The House of Mirth. They signify status; they contribute towards Lily’s economic and social ruin; and they carry painful memories of the past, a life that Lily knows she can never get back. Stay tuned for a forthcoming ‘get the Lily look’ post soon. Because who doesn’t want to emulate a disgraced young socialite?

Gillian Anderson as Lily Bart, The House of Mirth, 2000









Midi dress, £350, Needle and Thread
T-strap heels, £135, Anthropologie



